The proliferation of Internet dating sites that are easily accessible by teenagers should be a concern to both parents and authorities. Because many Internet dating sites are offering free services to everybody, many child predators and people with malicious intent towards teenagers are finding their way towards dating sites. They disguise themselves as another teenager looking for a date or somebody that only wants to be friends with the younger demographic.
If you are a teenager, you should be aware that these con artists are masters of their crime. They can lure you into thinking that they are of the same age as you and they find you interesting enough to meet. Whether you're a male or a female teenager, you're vulnerable to these predators. Don't believe the sweet words and persona of your online date. They can be the most vicious crocodiles disguised as the tamest sheep.
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To make sure that he is the person who he says he is, at least request for a phone call or a video chat with the person. If you finally decide to meet in person [which should never be seriously considered], it's always a good idea to bring someone with you if you're a teenager. Even if you've confirmed 100% that the person is the same age as you are, you still won't know how he is in person. If you don't want to meet your date with your dad in the background, you can at least bring your cousin or your big brother with you.
You should also avoid giving your personal details to your date if you have only met the person online. They might take advantage of the fact that they know your phone number, your school, or your home address for their own plans. There are plenty of con men out to black-mail young teenagers to expose their secrets to people they know. You should maintain anonymity at all times if you have not personally met the person and even then be very cautious.
As a parent, please try and be aware of who your son/daughter is talking to and to talk with them about the concepts in this article.